notes for video to snake

1. introspection, the value thereof
2. we're talking about "how this works"
3. we're talking about Feminism and MRA
4. last and very least, we're talking about JUST THE CLIPS YOU SHARE of the Woman you criticized.

1. I see you have a greater intellect than you let on with your general vibe.  I am this way too.
2. If I criticize or characterize what you say I'm not saying don't say it... say it and we'll talk about it.
3. You seem to side with the idea that feminism needs a counter-reactionary treatment, I disagree but that's fine, provide that all you want.  
4. "Sloppy seconds" and the talk about bedding girls like her... they were the subject. The metaphors you choose do saying something about you.
5. I don't begrudge the effect but I thought it was lame.  However, I used some lame effects to effect... consider it an homage.
6. We disagree on introspection, it is useful
1. you admitted you learn a lot about someone when they do it publicly
2. you said you give perspective. step two requires step one
3. I add perspective to your perspective.
7. If that's the case, don't you think that someone can introspect, say on film or paper, watch that, critique it themselves, and gain perspective that way.
8. If 50% of people get more problems in therapy, do you think that might be the therapists fault.  Psychology is like in the leeches stage of medical science.  Too complex for us at the moment.
9. You have a point about "punch life in the face and don't bitch about it"... fine, I like to point out the irony of bitching about that.  I never said you didn't deal with anything.
10. White male priv.  I basically believe that, but I don't think anything in my believing that justifies you to feel oppressed.  As long as I don't support legislating that, forcing you to do some particular action, I think telling you, as part of the world, a self-selecting audience, is fair.  You bitching about it is fair.  You may think that leads to some weak willed giving in, but generally what people do remains the same after they face such things, "wow, history sucks..." maybe give someone the vote or whatever
11. I didn't say sweet talk her, or worry about her feelings or build her up, I said POSITIVE, and I used an example of a criticism someone wouldn't want to hear (fake individuality)... but again, I'm comparing what you did to other options, I'm not saying to take the option I gave, I'm saying that since you CHOSE not to take it, it MEANS you do perpetuate the framing the feminists are complaining about.  It does exist.
12. Ignoring brain trolls. Introspection as neurosis.